Marriage, Divorce and Separation

August 17, 2022

Marriage, Divorce and Separation

It is often misunderstood the effect your marital status can have on your Will, arguably sometimes it is particularly unclear. Maybe you wish to have a better grasp of where you stand and what is going to happen if you should pass away given your marital status.

This article aims to help clear up some of the lesser-known rules around Will Writing and Marital Status as the two are much more linked than you may suspect.

(A small disclaimer: all references to marriage and divorce are interchangeable with civil partnership and dissolution.)

Marriage/Civil Partnership

While we are all aware of what Marriage and Civil Partnership is, less commonly known is that marriage has a distinct effect on how you should write a Will. It is mistakenly believed that marriage has no effect on your Will and that there is no concern here.

But in fact, marriage can outright revoke your Will completely unless you take steps to ensure that this doesn’t happen. The reason this is a particularly important issue is that if you were to have children from a previous partnership and have a Will benefiting them, by marrying someone new you could be disinheriting them completely by accident.

So, if marriage automatically revokes a Will, but you don’t want this to happen to you when you do marry, then what can be done?

This is where the clause known as Contemplation of Marriage comes in, this clause is used in Will Writing where you express a contrary intention to the ‘automatic revocation’ of your Will upon getting married. Specifically, this clause is a declaration within your Will that your intended marriage to your potential future spouse shall not have the effect of revoking your Will.

Okay, but do we have to get married within a certain time limit for this to take effect?

  • The most common question we face is how long do you have before this statement becomes invalid? While there is not a concrete time period set, there is legal precedent that the marriage needs to be done within a ‘reasonable’ amount of time, the longer you leave it, the less likely the contemplation will be able to stand up to scrutiny by the court. If you leave it 30 years to marry, the courts are unlikely to look favourably upon this contemplation clause.

I have this clause in my Will, but I am with a new partner since then, is this clause still valid?

  • When it comes to the Contemplation of Marriage Clause, there is a restriction in that the Will is drafted with sole reference to the future spouse/civil partner that at the time the Will was made that you intend to be married to; this being set out in s18(4) of the Wills Act 1837.
  • If you have a new partner that you intend to marry, the clause from the first contemplation is invalid. A rewritten Will with a Contemplation Clause to the new specific person will need to be written for the clause to be valid.


Divorce/Dissolution

Just as in real life as under Succession law, divorce is never straightforward. While we have just seen how marriage can affect your Will, divorce also has its own unique effect on the Will. While it may seem logical that divorce would invalidate a Will, it interestingly only has the effect of treating your ex-spouse as if they died on the day of the divorce, as seen under Section 18a of the Wills Act 1837.

What would being divorced mean for my current Will?

  • Because of the divorce, even if your former spouse survived you, the Will treats them as if they died the day of the divorce and therefore cannot inherit from you by virtue of once being married to you. If your Will states they are to receive ‘X’ from you, they are unable to because under Succession Law they have died before you so any gift to them will pass on to the next person who is entitled.

However, unlike in marriage, there is no ‘contemplation of divorce’ clause, so something to watch out for is that until the Decree Absolute has been issued and the divorce officially completed, the other person is still for the purposes of your Will and Succession Law considered to be your spouse with all the entitlements that brings.

Okay so we know that divorcing means that the Will treats the ex-spouse as having predeceased and does not revoke the Will; what if you are separated but would still wish your spouse to benefit or act as an executor or trustee even after the divorce is finalised?

There is a clause for this in Will Writing where you express contrary intention to Section 18a of the Wills Act 1837, not too dissimilar to the contrary intention used in the marriage section.

 What does stating this contrary intention do exactly?

  • ­By stating a clear contrary intention to Section 18a you are declaring that when your Will comes into effect, the presumption of divorce treating the ex-spouse as predeceased is ignored for the purposes of your Will; that it is your specific intention that they retain the ability to act and benefit as any other individual would under your Will.
Judicial Separation

An unfamiliar area of family law when it comes to the realm of Will Writing, it is more common to have clients who are either married/civil partners, divorced/dissolved or single/cohabiting. So, what is Judicial Separation and how does it affect writing a Will?

Judicial Separation, or otherwise known as a deed of separation does not have the same effect that a divorce has under s18a of the Wills Act 1837. While it is a legal form of separation where the partners have officially separated and have proven they are not cohabiting, it has rather unique rules when it comes to affecting the estate of a client depending particularly on one of two conditions: dying with a Will or dying intestate.

Example 1: Dying with a will that still benefits the spouse you’re separated from:

  • If you are to leave a Will that still benefits the spouse you are separated from, they still retain the right to that benefit.
  • As we saw in the previous section about Divorce, until a Decree Absolute is issued the spouse is still deemed as your spouse under succession law and is not excluded from benefiting under Section 18a.
  • If you wanted them to retain their benefit while completing the divorce, this would be the time to express to contrary intention set out in the previous section.

Example 2: Dying Intestate:

  • The simpler of the two examples, while dying with a Will creates a situation where you are deemed to still be married to the estranged spouse, dying intestate has an alternative take.
  • Under the rules of Judicial Separation when dying intestate, for the purposes of intestacy the course of action is more akin to divorce. Dying without a Will while Judicially Separated will dictate for the purposes of inheritance that the estranged spouse has predeceased the intestate.
Conclusion

In review, we can see each unique and interesting way that different areas of Marriage/Civil Partnership, Divorce/Dissolution and Judicial Separation can have a remarkable effect on your Will and hopefully we have made it clear how instrumental understanding how your marital status affects your Will is.

If you are thinking of having your Will written or realised that a change needs to be made to your Will as a result of this article, please contact us on 0800 0747642 or 01206 544919.

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By Julia Newlove February 4, 2026
Making a Will is one of the most important steps anyone can take to protect their family, assets and wishes after death. Yet, despite this, millions of people in the UK still die without one. In 2026, writing a Will or reviewing an existing one, is more important than ever, particularly considering changing family structures, rising asset values, and ongoing developments in Wills and succession law. Whether you are writing your first Will or reviewing a document drafted years ago, now is the time to ensure your wishes are clear, legally effective and fit for modern life. The National Wills Report 2025 found that only 37% of UK adults currently have a valid Will, leaving nearly two-thirds of the population exposed to the consequences of intestacy. Encouragingly, 34% of adults say they plan to make a Will within the year, suggesting growing awareness, but awareness alone is not enough. 2026 is the year to move from intention to action. 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If you die without a valid Will, your estate is distributed according to the rules of intestacy. These rules are fixed in law and do not take account of personal relationships, fairness, or individual circumstances. If you die intestate: Your estate is distributed strictly according to law. Unmarried partners receive nothing, regardless of how long you have lived together. Stepchildren are excluded unless legally adopted. The people you would choose to benefit may not inherit at all. Family members may face delays, uncertainty, and additional costs. This can be especially problematic for blended families, long-term cohabiting couples, and those with complex family relationships. The Reality: Most People Still Have Not Acted The National Wills Report 2025 highlights a concerning gap between understanding and action. Only 37% of adults have a Will. 63% of adults remain without one. 29% of people with a Will haven’t told anyone where it is stored. 51% of adults do not know where their parent’s Will is kept. This means that even where a Will exists, it may be difficult or impossible to locate when needed, creating unnecessary stress for families during an already challenging time. Why Updating an Existing Will Is Just as Important Having a Will is not a one-off task. Life changes, and your Will should change with it. A Will that no longer reflects your circumstances can cause just as many problems as having no Will at all. You should review your Will if you have experienced: Changes in Relationships: Marriage or civil partnership In England and Wales, marriage automatically revokes an existing Will unless it was made in contemplation of that marriage. Divorce or separation. New relationships or remarriage. Changes in Family Circumstances: The birth of children or grandchildren. The death of a spouse, partner, beneficiary, or executor. Changes in family dynamics or responsibilities. Changes in Financial Circumstances Buying or selling a property. Significant changes to finances or business interests. Receiving an inheritance. Changes to investments or pensions. As a general rule, Wills should be reviewed every three to five years, even if no major life event has occurred. Modern Families Need Clear, Modern Planning Family structures in 2026 are increasingly complex. Cohabitation, blended families and second marriages are now common, yet intestacy rules remain firmly rooted in traditional family models. A Will is particularly important if you: Live with a partner but are not married or in a civil partnership. Have children from previous relationships. Wish to protect a spouse while ultimately benefiting children. Want to treat children and stepchildren fairly. Support someone financially who is not a close relative. Clear instructions in a Will reduce uncertainty, manage expectations, and help prevent disputes. Legal Developments and Why 2026 Matters Recent years have seen increased attention on the needs to modernise Wills law. In 2025, the Law Commission continued to progress proposals aimed at bringing Wills legislation into line with modern life. Proposals included: Reforming the rule that marriage revokes a Will. Updating the test for testamentary capacity. Allowing courts greater flexibility where formalities are not strictly followed. Exploring the future recognition of electronic Wills. While these reforms are not yet into force, they highlight a crucial point that the law is evolving, but current legal certainty still matters. A clearly drafted, professionally prepared Will remains the safest way to ensure your wishes are legally effective.  Reducing Stress, Delays and Disputes One of the greatest benefits of a clear, up-to-date Will is the reduction of stress for loved ones. When a Will is unclear, outdated or missing altogether, families may face: Disputes between beneficiaries. Claims against the estate. Lengthy probate delays. Increased legal costs. By contrast, a well-structured Will provides clarity at a tough time and helps the estate be administered efficiently. Practical Steps to Take in 2026 To protect your assets and loved ones this year, consider the following actions: Make a Will If you do not currently have one, making a Will should be a priority, particularly if you have children, own property, or live with a partner. Review Your Existing Will Check that it still reflects your wishes, assets, relationships and meets current legal requirements. Ensure Your Will Can Be Found/Located Tell your executors where your Will is being stored and consider registering its location. Additionally avoid “shadow Wills” (unofficial copies or drafts that cause confusion) that cannot be located. Think Holistically A Will should form part of a broader, working alongside tools such as Lasting Powers of Attorney (LPAs) to protect you during your lifetime as well as after death. Final Takeaway A Will is not just a document for later life, it is a practical step that protects the people and things that matter to you, whatever your age or circumstances. With millions of adults still without a Will, and many existing Wills no longer reflecting current realities, 2026 presents a clear opportunity to put plans into place with confidence. Taking the time now to write or review your Will ensures clarity, reduces uncertainty, and gives reassurance to those you leave behind. It is a small investment of time that can prevent significant difficulty in the future. Source SWW
By Julia Newlove January 21, 2026
More couples than ever are choosing to live together without marrying or entering a civil partnership. While this arrangement works well for many, it can create significant inheritance tax and estate planning disadvantages on death. This article explains the main IHT disadvantages unmarried couples face compared with married couples or civil partners, the pitfalls of ‘leaving everything to each other’ (including life interest trusts), and why a nil rate band discretionary trust in a will is often a better planning tool for inheritance tax planning for unmarried couples. Inheritance Tax Planning for Unmarried Couples – Disadvantages Under the Inheritance Tax Act 1984, gifts between spouses and civil partners are generally exempt from IHT (the spousal exemption). Two allowances are central to IHT: · Nil Rate Band (NRB): currently £325,000 per individual. Up to this value, the taxable estate is charged at 0%. · Residence Nil Rate Band (RNRB): an additional allowance (subject to conditions) when a qualifying main residence is inherited by the deceased’s direct descendants. The current value is £175,000. For married couples or civil partners, unused NRB and RNRB can typically be transferred to the survivor, allowing up to two sets of allowances on second death. Unmarried couples do not benefit from these rules. In practice: · Gifts on death to an unmarried partner are potentially chargeable to IHT (subject to available allowances). · There is no automatic transfer of unused IHT allowances between unmarried partners. The transferable nil rate band is designed for spouses or civil partners only. The RNRB also has a practical trap in blended unmarried families. For RNRB purposes, “direct descendants” includes children, grandchildren and certain others; it also includes stepchildren. An unmarried partner’s child is not treated as the deceased’s “direct descendant”, so a gift of part of the home to that child will fail the “closely inherited” condition and the RNRB will be unavailable over that share. This is a key consideration in inheritance tax planning for unmarried couples with children from previous relationships. Leaving Everything to Each Other A common “simple will” choice is to leave everything to the surviving partner outright on first death. For an unmarried couple, that gift is not spouse-exempt. If the estate is above the available allowances, an IHT charge will arise immediately. Even where no IHT is payable on first death (because the estate is under the NRB), the second risk is that by gifting to the partner it will be bunching assets in them and without the benefit of any transferable allowances. Life Interest Trusts and Unmarried Couples Many wills include a life interest trust, either over the whole estate or just over the property (usually referred to as a Property Protection Trust or PPT). In simple terms, the survivor may have a right to occupy a property or receive income for life, with the capital eventually passing to named beneficiaries. These trusts can achieve non-tax objectives (for example, protecting a share of a property for children from a previous relationship). However, where the survivor benefits from a life interest, the trust will be considered as an Immediate Post-Death Interest (IPDI) and the trust capital will be taxed as part of the survivor’s estate for IHT on their death. Using life interest trusts for unmarried couples will therefore suffer the same IHT disadvantages as leaving to the partner outright. Why a Nil Rate Band Discretionary Trust Can Be More Effective A nil rate band discretionary trust is a will trust designed to capture up to the value of the NRB on first death. Instead of leaving everything outright to the partner, or tying up assets in a life interest, the will directs that an amount up to the NRB passes into a discretionary trust. Key features: · As a discretionary trust, the trustees decide who benefits, when, and by how much, from a class of beneficiaries (often including the surviving partner, children and sometimes wider family). · The trust is funded up to the NRB so no IHT is payable on that slice at the first death. · A discretionary trust is relevant property, and the beneficiaries of the trust are not considered as owning the trust capital for IHT. This avoids the trust fund being taxed as part of the surviving partner’s estate on their death. · The first partner’s NRB is used rather than wasted. · Trustees can lend to the survivor, assist with housing, or distribute to children depending on needs and tax position. While discretionary trusts are subject to their own IHT regime (periodic and exit charges under the relevant property rules), a trust funded up to the NRB is commonly structured to minimise or avoid such charges. Incorporating a nil rate band discretionary trust is a therefore a useful strategy in inheritance tax planning for unmarried couples. Example Andy and Betty are an unmarried couple. Andy has an adult child, Chloe, from a previous relationship. Betty has no children. They own a home as tenants in common and have separate savings. They want to provide for each other but also leave assets to Chloe. · Andy’s estate: 50% of the home (£350,000) + savings (£150,000) = £500,000 · Betty’s estate: 50% of the home (£350,000) + savings (£150,000) = £500,000 · Total combined wealth: £1,000,000 If they were married, they could simply leave everything to each other (or in life interests) and no IHT would be due. The spousal exemption will apply on first death. On second death, two sets of NRB and RNRB would be available regardless of who dies first, as Chloe is considered as Betty’s descendant for RNRB purposes as a stepchild. This will not be the case if they die unmarried. Option 1: Everything to partner Andy dies first and leaves his estate of £500,000 outright to Betty. · Andy’s NRB: £325,000. · The gift to Betty is not spouse-exempt. · Immediate taxable amount: £500,000 – £325,000 = £175,000. · IHT at 40%: £70,000 on Andy’s death. · Betty inherits £430,000 Betty now owns £930,000. When Betty later dies, she has only her own NRB (£325,000) because Andy’s unused allowance cannot transfer. · Taxable amount: £930,000 – £325,000 = £605,000. · IHT at 40%: £242,000 Option 2: Nil rate band discretionary trust + remainder to partner Andy’s will leaves the NRB (£325,000) into a nil rate band discretionary trust (beneficiaries include Betty and Chloe), and the balance (£175,000) to Betty outright. · IHT on Andy’s death: no IHT is due on the NRB Discretionary Trust · The remaining £175,000 to Betty is taxable at 40% as before · Betty inherits £105,000 Over time, trustees can support Betty (for example, by letting her live in the property or by lending funds). Crucially, the £325,000 in the trust is not part of Betty’s estate on her death, reducing exposure to IHT on second death. Betty now owns £605,000. Assuming the estate remained that value by the time of her death, her IHT would be calculated as follows: · Taxable amount: £605,000 – £325,000 = £280,000. · IHT at 40%: £112,000. Use of a NRB Discretionary Trust leads to an IHT saving of £130,000 over inheriting outright. Marriage/Civil partnership as an Option For some unmarried couples facing an IHT liability, it may be appropriate to consider marriage or civil partnership as part of their planning. This can significantly improve the IHT outcome because the spouse/civil partner exemption can allow assets to pass to the survivor free of IHT on the first death, and the survivor can benefit from transferred nil rate band and residence nil rate band from the first to die. That said, marriage/civil partnership can have important consequences beyond tax and they may wish to seek advice on creating a prenuptial agreement if they have significant wealth from before the relationship. While nuptial agreements are not automatically binding, the courts can give them significant weight where they are freely entered into, with full appreciation of their implications, and are fair in the circumstances. Conclusion For unmarried couples, the IHT framework is less generous than for spouses and civil partners. The absence of the spouse exemption and non-transferability of allowances means that common planning such as leaving everything to a partner, or relying on a life interest/PPT, can trigger tax when spouses would avoid it. The nil rate band discretionary trust offers a flexible and more tax-friendly alternative, but its implementation requires careful consideration of the client’s circumstances. 
By Julia Newlove September 3, 2025
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